You're Not Mine


You came into my life, 
        dancing like a deer in a pristine forest.  
From grove to grove, 
        I danced with you.  

You were in all my stories and dreams.  
And best of all, 
        you lived with me in a way no one else has.

Since then, 
    there were new journeys and dances.  
I was lit up by your presence,
            and we were at life’s peak. 
All these years, you were mine. 
And the forest was ours.

But today, you’re gone.  
And I will never have you back the same way.  

You have lived your life.  
And I am still living mine.  
It’s just that our trails part here.  

I am in shock to realize that you’re no longer mine.  
You never were.  

You were my partner, 
    my friend, 
    my dancing legend.  

You took me on your journey, 
    and I took you on mine.

I know I will be hearing from you now and then.  
So will your other friends and admirers.  

I also know you have not lost your love and interest for me.

You have always adjusted to change faster than I have.  
My adjustments have always come more slowly.  
And I need more time to grieve.  
        Lots more time.

You belong to God now. 
Always have.
And now you are together, 
    face to face, 
    gracing the divine.

You’re not mine, I know now.  

But thank you for our life together. 

I have been blessed, 
        but I am living in my blessing’s shadow.

Help me to grieve,
        and let you go where you belong.



(Suggested Song: Hear You Me - Jimmy Eat World)

© 2002 Cornerstone Media, Inc., All Rights Reserved

This reflection, accompanied by current music, is featured on the October 2002 edition of Monthly Audio Powerthoughts.

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